If you are looking for a committed relationship, you need to stop "dating" this guy and stop sleeping with him. Most likely, it is never going to turn into a committed relationship and you are just going to wind up getting hurt more. Of course he wants to still see you - he's getting sex! But if you're not comfortable with the situation and not comfortable with him dating other women, you need to get out because it will only get worse if your feelings get any more involved. It will be awkward to see him for a while and to watch him date other women in your complex but you'll get through it. Good luck.
Of course he waited to tell you he doesn't want a commitment. He wanted you to become attached to him enough to continue an intimate relationship with him, but when he feels you are getting "too close" emotionally, then he wants to shoo you off. This guy is no good for your self esteem. If you feel insecure about have a FWB relationship with him then you need to tell him to get lost. I know your kids play together and you'll have to see him in the future. But telling him to get lost, will make you feel a whole lot better. Your dignity will be intact. And warn the lady downstairs about him. >:)
I assume you did hear from him but considering the stage of your relationship and that you'd made plans for the rest of the holidays it would have been fine for you to call
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This guy is not for you. The next time he calls tell him that you aren't comfortable with this relationship and you need to move on.
Then be courteous when you see him in the neighborhood, but not overly friendly.
I assume you did hear from him but considering the stage of your relationship and that you'd made plans for the rest of the holidays it would have been fine for you to call
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