why he broke my heart?
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why he broke my heart?
| Sun, 02-29-2004 - 10:04pm |
I dont understand what happened? I've been dating my bf for 1 year and 3 months. I see him on the weekends...We never fight.He's afraid to tell me that he loves me, but i feel it. The last two weeks I've noticed that he's been acting weird.He seemed depressed. He broke up with me...yesterday. He didn't give me a reason why.He just said he didnt know where this was going, and that he was having problems at work. He also told me not to become a "stranger". I dont know what to do...I already wrote him an e-mail...but he hasnt written me back. I dont know what to do to get him back.. I dont believe he's seeing anyone, why is he backing away?
Please write back.
Please write back.

Anyway, his reasoning was not unlike your bf's - work worries, not sure about us, other personal issues. I think that really he just wasn't ready for a serious relationship - or at least not with me. But he couldn't come right out and say that for whatever reason.
I think that you have to accept that things are over with your bf. Move on with your life as if he were no longer a part of it. Tell him that you are not ready to be friends right now. Let him have the time and space he needs - if he changes his mind, he knows where to find you (but don't count on him changing his mind!).
My bf broke up with me three weeks ago. He only told me that he loved me once when he was drunk. And I told him a million times. I woke up laughing about it this morning. The reason I laughed was that I really had to think how funny and sad it is for someone to be with you for 6 months, share a bed with you, make love to you, take you to meet their parents and not be able to get that past their lips. But when that is the case dear... You should always know that something is wrong.
Be glad that you can say it. There are guys out there who can say it too.
But if you want more advice you should give me some more background. What were your problems/ issues? what did you fight about? Just more input....
for me, I wouldn't date someone more than 6 months unless we were in love and saw a future together. Just my thoughts.
Hi Gracie,
I have to agree wih Deena on this one.
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