Why is he doing this?!?
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Why is he doing this?!?
| Tue, 08-31-2004 - 11:40am |
I posted a message before that I meet a guy one night then spent the night with him the following night. Now, he calls me and leaves messages for me, but we have yet to have a phone conversation since we last saw each other. His message sound so normal as if he was interested and he really wants me to call back, but when I do I get his voicemail, I leave a message and the cycle starts again. I haven't seen him or spoken to him since we last saw each other. He has multiple opportunity to leave this alone, but he keeps calling and leaving messages for me to call him back. I do call back, because I like to see him again, I thought our night went well and his messages keeps confirming that he would still be interested. I don't know how to take this. I want him to stop calling so I can stop returning his calls. I need a clear sign that he is definitely not interested. It's my fault cause I want him still and each time he calls I return his message. What is he doing?

I would say he is up to something else - dating someone else maybe, and keeping you on teh back burner.. that sounds terrible, I know, but one possible explanation. the fact taht he does call is good... but you keep missing the calls? Is there any way u can tell him a specific time to call and definitely not miss the call?? If he doesn't call you then.. he will purposefully trying to avoid you.
try it!!