why is he flirting with me?

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Registered: 10-07-2004
why is he flirting with me?
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 3:11am
I work for an Attorney's office that handles "financial" situations. I have a client that after meeting with him I was attracted to him and thought we got along really well, talked long, joked and seemed to hit it off. We both flirted openly back and forth. I dont normally issue interest in my clients but he seemed different. I got up the courage and gave him my personal phone number during a work related phone conversation and he never called. Ok, this is fine. I can handle that maybe he just wasnt into me and didnt want to call. I dont see him often, but when I do see him or speak with him on the phone (work related) he is still very flirty and overly chatty with me about other topics. It just confuses me as to why he flirts and seems interested but never called me. I would think that if he wasnt interested, especially after I gave him my number, he would act like my normal clients, just casual and friendly. Is there something I am missing? I am at a total loss on how to act around him. I dont know if I should flirt back or act like I am not interested in him any more.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 8:00am
hmmm....horsegal it is elvis in silence here....well honestly...theres a girl at my uni who is a the cafe...asian...she is cute...as usual...and everytime i c her...i flirt with her...that i rarely do with others...and that is bcoz she is cute and as she is in the cafe...she is in a position that a guy can flirt...but seriously i m not looking for anything...its just fun to flirt with her...and i do it basically bcoz i cant leave without having a joke...i love to laugh a lot...and every chance i get i wud like to laugh and make others laugh...and acting stupid and openly flirting makes gurls laugh at us so much...it makes me feel so good..that a gurl laughs at me...bcoz they look most beutiful when they laugh...so innocent....i guess that is true for any person...an open laugh..few ppl can make that happen...to me...those ppl who can laugh freely and can make others laugh openhearted are special ppl...takes away that sorrow of the heart (enya song going in the background...mmm.....like therapy)...ahem! yeah where was i...ok......ummm....yeah....so...he's probably a guy who isnt looking for anything special...so let him be just a friend...dont take it seriously...this might scare him to think that he cant be so open...coz it mit turn someone into thinking it seriously...hmmm...thats all i have to say for the moment...

elvis_in_silence
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 11:47am
Maybe he's unavailable and just enjoys flirting.