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Why just leave without goodbye?
| Tue, 11-16-2004 - 7:34am |
I have a question for boys to answer:
I been in regualry contact with a guy for a year. We met on an online-dating service, and started out very friendly just-for-fun contact. We are both in relitionships, and we have both shared thaughts of this with eachother.
All the time the tone between us has been funny, and neither has expressed how we feel for each other emotionally, just physically.
Well, we have met five times during this year, but have not slept together, even though this has been in the air the past two months. Cause we spendt one night together in last of august, and ever since that we waited for a chance like that again. He has mailed me, called me, texted me that he want to meet again.
But suddenly, a month ago he stopped responding. We was supposed to meet that week, and I mailed him an email with sexual hints, which I have never done before, and when he didnt replie on that I waited for almost three weeks before I texted him one sms asking where he is hiding and if he stikcing to his partner or something else,-but he has not replid. And he has stopped beeing on the dating sentral too, and before he was there alomost every day.
My questions are:
I been in regualry contact with a guy for a year. We met on an online-dating service, and started out very friendly just-for-fun contact. We are both in relitionships, and we have both shared thaughts of this with eachother.
All the time the tone between us has been funny, and neither has expressed how we feel for each other emotionally, just physically.
Well, we have met five times during this year, but have not slept together, even though this has been in the air the past two months. Cause we spendt one night together in last of august, and ever since that we waited for a chance like that again. He has mailed me, called me, texted me that he want to meet again.
But suddenly, a month ago he stopped responding. We was supposed to meet that week, and I mailed him an email with sexual hints, which I have never done before, and when he didnt replie on that I waited for almost three weeks before I texted him one sms asking where he is hiding and if he stikcing to his partner or something else,-but he has not replid. And he has stopped beeing on the dating sentral too, and before he was there alomost every day.
My questions are:
1) Why did he just stop?
2) Why did he just stop even without a goodbye?
I do not expect an explanation, but I do think it's sad he didnt even bother to just end it. He could said:" We cannot meet no more," but he has not said anything. Just like our contact never happened.
Please share your thaughts about this, cause I do not understand why I even wasen't worthy a "go to hell" line

It doesn't take a "guy" to answer your question.
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My advice would be to let it go, he doesn't owe you anything. What you might want to do for yourself is to further your education. This is not a diss, and I am not trying to insult you, But your grammar and spelling is uh juvenile at best.
There are no rules to the dating game, the sooner you realize this the better off you will be. You have alot of nerve expecting him to be all honest and upfront with you when you proved yourself unloyal by expressing your want to have sex with him, and having a boyfriend.
Thank you for sharing your thaughts with me
Peace.