why so many non-commital men?!

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Registered: 04-02-2004
why so many non-commital men?!
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Mon, 04-05-2004 - 6:04pm
why is it that every guy that i've come across are non-commital?! all they want is to have fun and to have sex. these guys are ages 24-26. maybe it's because of their age range? or maybe its just that i'm meeting all the WRONG guys?! maybe i need to meet older guys?! i'm sure i'm not the ONLY one who feels this way...but why is it that guys take so long to be committed?! =/
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 04-05-2004 - 6:51pm

It could be the age group, but believe me, there are plenty of men in their 40s and 50s who just want to have sex without commitment too ;-)!


I would suggest reading this thread for some suggestions on how to weed out those guys:


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rldatingdil&msg=24463.1


Sheri


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 04-05-2004 - 7:53pm
What are your specific committment expectations? They may be too much - too soon for many men in that age group. If you can let us know what committment means to you and the pace in which you expect it, we might be able to offer more specific advice.