Why Won't He Commit?
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Why Won't He Commit?
| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 7:53pm |
For the past six months I've had a relationship with a man named John. We do everything that a couple does together: we go on dates, we take eachother to functions, we talk constantly, have great sex and neither of us are seeing other people. He's a great guy and I love the time I spend with him and I know that he adores me, but he doesn't seem to want to make it official. I've discussed with him that it bothers me but he always says he's waiting for the right time. After all these months my patience is starting to run short and I'm starting to feel hurt. How should I proceed?

Since you describe the relationship as "doing the couple thing" he might be so comfy that that's why he doesn't want to commit. Why do it if after all he's enjoying every thing from a relationship without responsabilities to you or the relationship. He's having his needs met and he's disregarding yours.