why won't he leave
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| Thu, 04-01-2004 - 12:49pm |
After a few months went by he said he has feelings for me now and would love to spend the rest of our lives together. My feelings have grown for him too. His wife found a text message I sent to his cell phone and was very upset. Yes, I can understand. Since then she censors his email. He told her he wanted a divorce and she threatened to burn his clothes when he went to work. First she said she would give him a divorce, then a few days later she said she wouldn’t and that she would ruin things for him at work. A few days later he contacted me and said she changed the cell number and blocked me from calling the house. Now I can't call him, except at work. He gave me his new email but only checks it at work. He still calls me almost every day. He keeps saying he will leave her. At this point so far we have never been together, just exchanged pictures. Eight months later I drove to his town and we spent several passionate hours together. He did not spend the night though. Two weeks later they got into a heated argument and he told her I had visited, he wanted a divorce, and she blew up again. He got her calmed down since she threatened to hurt me. Anyway, 4 months later I visited his town again and we spent several hours together again.
In the 15 mo that we've been in contact with each other, we've had intimate relations twice. He keeps saying he will leave her and says there's nothing stopping him from leaving. I have more less given him deadlines to leave by but that day comes and goes. If we were seeing each regularly having sex, then I could see that he was using me for the sex, but we have only been together the two times. So why does he not leave her? He says I'm the only one for him and will always be. Should I keep waiting for him?

I think you want the "My Affair" board.
Sheri