Why would he talk about me like that?
Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend for over four years now. We have always had an honest relationship and felt comfortable discussing any issues... or so I thought. I know that guys talk with their friends and sometimes there can be a lot of locker room bravado. I have asked him about this before, if he ever talked with his friends about our intimacy. He flat out denied it. Last night I found out from a couple of his friends that he has indeed shared plenty of detail bragging about my "skills" at a party when he had too much to drink. At first he denied they were telling the truth but when I asked him again today he confessed, although he would not tell me exactly what info he had divulged to them.
I am so confused number 1 because he lied to me flat out in the past about this issue. Number 2, why would he talk about me in a degrading manner like that? Especially because half the time he's not interested anyway because he's too tired, or whatever. Does this make him an untrustworthy? Maybe it was just an impaired mistake, but it seems so out of character. I don't even know if I'm hurt or mad about it, I'm just stunned. Has anyone else had an experience like this?