will he ask me out or what
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will he ask me out or what
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 4:40pm |
ok...i dont know what to do or say...
i met this guy 2 months ago, when he asked me to go to a party with him...that day he didnt try anyhing..then we went on a date..and he kissed me...
its two months later..and we dont talk about it being a BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND relationship..everyone just assumes that we are together, becasue we hold hands and kiss in public.
everyone says that we are boyfriend and girlfriend, even though he hasnt asked me out.
i dont know what to think, and im scared to bring it up.
we are at that point where if i were to date someone or he would date someone, it would be messed up.
i met this guy 2 months ago, when he asked me to go to a party with him...that day he didnt try anyhing..then we went on a date..and he kissed me...
its two months later..and we dont talk about it being a BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND relationship..everyone just assumes that we are together, becasue we hold hands and kiss in public.
everyone says that we are boyfriend and girlfriend, even though he hasnt asked me out.
i dont know what to think, and im scared to bring it up.
we are at that point where if i were to date someone or he would date someone, it would be messed up.
what should i do?

After 2 months...why not gently ask the man if this relationship the 2 of you have IS MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP? He'll certainly tell you one way or another. From what you've indicated...the man seems to like you....but how much? Only he knows for sure. SO ASK HIM!
The question is....if he has no intention of getting "REALLY SERIOUS" with you...can you handle the possibility of being rejected or replaced by someone else?
Pianoguy (who hopes the answers he gives you are all POSITIVE!)
i dont know..im very shy wehn it comes to that...how would u feel if u were put in that situation...?
tell me what u think wouldnt sound too serious..for u
Anyway, that's my thought.
jebestar
The previous response from jebestar is exactly what Pianoguy would suggest. It isn't necessary to make a big deal out of asking...BUT ASK!
While it's obvious that you're nervous about the answer...build up your courage, look the man in the eyes, smile...and ASK HIM!
Good Luck from...
Pianoguy
Good luck!