Will He Call Me?

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Registered: 10-22-2004
Will He Call Me?
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Fri, 10-22-2004 - 11:56pm
I met this guy who I fell deeply in love with. We never had a title to our relationship because in the beginning it was only going to be sexual. I fell for him, and he began to have feelings for me as well. Well we never had sex after 4 months, because we could never get on track with our untitled relationship. It was a very emotional, intense, and chaotic experience, I have never felt in my life. He would hurt my feelings, and did not have any respect or consideration for me. I knew it was because he was sexually frustrated with me, but I couldn't have sex with him, because I had a terrible sexual experience and that person gave me a STD. I didn't know how to tell him, and we could never get along for me to tell him. So I tried to avoid sex. I played alot of emotional games and so did he, but his games were hurtful and cruel, and everytime he hurt me or disappointed me, I would just fall for him over and over. He finally hurt me for the last time, and I told him to never call me again. It's been over month since I heard from him, and I still think about him. I want him to call me, do you think he will? After everything he did to me, I still want to be his friend. Can we be friends as well?
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Registered: 08-26-2004
In reply to: dev242
Sat, 10-23-2004 - 12:30am
why would you want to be friends with someone who treated you so poorly... you don't need someone like that in your life.

Plus a man should respect a woman and if she does not want to have sex that is no excuse for him to act like a jerk so please if he does call, don't talk to him, most likely if you were friends with him, he would treat you bad and make you feel worse about yourself.