Will he change his mind?
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| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 9:58pm |
Ok So I have been seeing Scott since July 4th - and to be honest with you all, it was only suppose to be a one-night stand LOL So we had a night of great sex - like 4 times, and he actually called me the next day - which was a shocker!
We became friends, starting seeing eachother once or twice a week. Now in the beginning he clearly stated that he "did not want a relationship right now" and on occasion he brings that up in conversation. He was scorned from a relationship that ended about 2 months before I met him. I totally understand where he is coming from. Ok, so now things are getting hot and heavy with us. I speak to him a good 4 times a day, and we see eachother much more. We have a vacation planned for January too. He is totally different towards me now, seems to show much more interest in me!
My question to you is, do you think that maybe he is falling for me, and says "I don't want a relationship" to remind HIMSELF of that?? They say that actions speak louder than words - and this time I played it right! No smothering, he calls me, I don't chase him - I have been going with the flow! I really do care about him a lot - but I will not wait around for him to *decide* he wants a girlfriend... I am in no rush to be tied down, I like the way things are going, but eventually - it would be nice if we did become an *item*
What do you think???
Thanks so much in advance for your advice!
Anna
