Will he come back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2004
Will he come back?
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Fri, 07-23-2004 - 3:25pm
I went on one date with this guy. It went pretty well, we went back to his apartment and kissed and touched a little (no sex though he asked me if I would sleep with him). Then I finally got in touch wiht him and he said "there was a lot going on in his life right now and he would call me back in a couple of days." Will I ever hear from him again.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 4:02pm
Sounds to me like he was looking for sex and since you said no, he's not going to bother.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 4:14pm
Dear animalover:

Unfortunately, it looks like this gentleman just needed sex at that very moment. Be prepared to never hear from him again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 4:18pm
He probably did just want sex. And even if he does call, he'll probably want it the next time too. With guys like this, you need to not give in if he asks again because you don't want to be like every other girl that succumbs to his wants.

But go out and look for other prospects, this way if he doesn't call - you are getting on with your life (because it was just ONE date), and if he does, then you have options.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 5:42pm
well animalover he most certianly wanted to sleep with you. you did then right thing by not giving in. will he call you who knows why should you care . he didnt get what he wanted.

life is short find a man with some values
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 6:00pm
See........THis guy thinks your promiscuous and that's good u didnt sleep with him on the first nite. Im happy for you =) You probably wont hear from this guy again. SO WHAT. Do you really want a guy like this? How many other first dates did he have where he wanted sex the first nite?

LOL...........SOUNDS LIKE ME=)