Will he ever commit?
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| Thu, 07-27-2006 - 1:22pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together going on three years. I'm 26 and he is 33. Last year he asked my parents for my hand in marriage. My parents told everyone and they were so excited to see their first child to marry. Since then he has never proposed to me. I constantly wonder if he's changed his mind about us. I have brought this up on several occasions, but he assures me that nothing has changed. He says that there is no one else and that he sees only me being his wife. I thought we were at a level to where we can be open with one another. Even at one point he told me that the issue was that he was paying on a ring. Well, months have passed and he tells me the reason is that he can't find the perfect ring for me(I guess he forgot he told me that he was paying on one,but I didn't say a thing). I know that he filed bankruptcy before we met and is concerned about getting a house. I'm still in college and I can't help him out on that. After all this, he tells me he thinks that he is ill due to head pain and ringing in his ears (he never told anyone but his mom this) and doesn't want to marry me and let me down on a mortgage.
This conversation happened this weekend and he is not yet seen a doctor. I starting to think that everything he tells me is a lie and it's making me really dislike someone I love. I feel like a fool and I really just want the truth to where iwant to get out of this relationship since i'm thinking I don't know this man anymore. What else can I do? How do you get through to a person like this? I just want the truth so I can make a plan B for my future.
ANY SUGGESTIONS?
| Thu, 07-27-2006 - 4:14pm |
