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Will he ever commit
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 11:33am |
Hello.
My boyfriend of three years told me last week that he does not ever want to marry again? He was married before and I was not. We have been together for three years and have a 12 month old son together. His past marriage ended badly, but he does not understand that this is something I have never experienced before. He says he loves me, and I love him with all my heart,so why won't he commit? We were only seeing each other a week when he told me that he would love for me to have his child. He has never had any of his own. We have problems because he parties too much, and I'm grumpy sometimes. I'm grumpy because he is never home to spend time with me. I'm very depressed over this. What do I do?

As far as going out. I would definately sit him down and talk to him. He has responsibilites at home and should have some guidlines - he should set them and commit to them so that he can go out and be with his friends but at the same time be there for you and your child.