Will he ever except my kids
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Will he ever except my kids
| Thu, 06-17-2004 - 10:52am |
I have been dating a guy for a year and a half now. I have four kids and he only has one I have excepted his child but he will not even try to except mine. He is always critizing everthing they do. So because of the kids he will only see me on friday nights when I have a babysitter. He says he loves me he just is not ready for the responsibility of the kids. Will he ever commit to me or am I just running in circles after this one? Should I just walk away or give him more time to deal with the kids? But will he ever really try to like the kids?
Edited 6/17/2004 11:01 am ET ET by wondering3138
Edited 6/17/2004 11:52 am ET ET by wondering3138

He says he loves me he just don't want the responsibility of the kids.
There are a million men out there, hard to find the good ones, but you will. Your children are your angels. Would you really want a man around them that does not accept them? How do you think that makes them feel? They look to you for love and security, if they see you let a man into your lives that doesn't treat them well, who else can they trust? It will cause huge problems down the line. No matter how great it may be for you, if it isn't just as great for the kids, then it isn't really what you think it is.
Ditch him as quickly as possible, and good luck.
I think it gives them the "perfect" excuse to keep their distance but continue to enjoy the benefits of companionship. The same reason why sleazy men hit on you when you have a ring on your finger...ugh.