WILL HE TURN AROUND
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WILL HE TURN AROUND
| Mon, 04-17-2006 - 11:39am |
I am 3 1/2 mths pregnant and my bf is less than thrilled w/the idea. My question, is do you think he will turn around?
| Mon, 04-17-2006 - 11:39am |
He could, but don't hold your breath!
thanks guys, i've tried talking to him about his anxiety and so far the only thing that i've come up w/is him saying he wasn't expecting kids so soon. in fact, he even broke up w/me so he wouldn't have to deal w/the pregnancy at all. his friends have been very influential (all of whom have kids & none of them support their children) so maybe their opinion matters more to him than doing the right thing. TRAPPED lol if anyone was trapped it was certainly me. he could never say that i trapped him, upon finding out about the pregnancy i was the one saying that it was too soon and that i wasn't ready etc. my fam nor his are believers in abortion (but both said that they would support my decision no matter what), so after days of praying and a dream i decided to continue the pregnancy. i don't know... maybe he'll come around maybe he won't but whether he likes it or not the baby will be here 10/17/06.
as for the financial part, his mother made him quit his previous job and to come work at her school when she found out that i was pregnant, so i don't think money is an issue.
Edited 4/17/2006 1:35 pm ET by iejones63
Edited 4/17/2006 1:38 pm ET by iejones63
You dont give many details about your relationship p- i.e.: how old the two of you are ,how long you've been together, how serious you are, what your relationship is like...