will time change things??
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will time change things??
| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 10:11pm |
my boyfriend of 1 and a half years broke up with me last week and i am completely heart broken, but many are surprised by this, me especially. I acted like a child throughout our relationship and he worshipped the ground i walked on. Even when he asked me to move in with him i made up some cheesy excuse while meanwhile i really wanted to. I fear that being so guarded and childish may have pushed him away.
I now feel completely lost and although we have talked and he wants to be friends i really want us to get back together, but more than that i want us to start over, fresh.
I know many people who after time have reconciled their relationships. He says that he doesn't see us getting back together any time soon but maybe in the future. Should I give up or fight for the one i truly love???
Please help!!
I now feel completely lost and although we have talked and he wants to be friends i really want us to get back together, but more than that i want us to start over, fresh.
I know many people who after time have reconciled their relationships. He says that he doesn't see us getting back together any time soon but maybe in the future. Should I give up or fight for the one i truly love???
Please help!!

And take some time to evaluate your own behavior. I don't think that moving in together before engagement/marriage is a good idea, to be honest, but I don't understand why you wanted to do it but told him you didn't. It doesn't add up - I guess this is what you meant about behaving like a child? You might want to ponder why you do things like this and how to avoid it in the future.