Will we last?
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Will we last?
| Fri, 03-05-2004 - 10:05pm |
My boyfriend and I have had alot of disagreements and situations in our relationship of 2 years. Our biggest trial in our relationship was his cheating on me. We worked through it and continued on making our relationship stronger. But, no matter what neither one of us leaves the relationship. I know I stay b/c I love him, and I am comfortable with the relationship. I asked recently him why he continues to stay through the arguments and everything else that happens. His response was b/c he loves me and does not want to lose the time we have invested in our relationship. So we are both staying b/c we do not want to go out and find someone else or start again. Should we stay in a relationship b/c we are both comfortable? Can a relationship last in this manner and survive into a lasting marriage?

Nobody can predict for you how long your relationship will last. But if you're here asking for opinions, you must doubts about it. Why is that, do you think?
What are your disagreements about? What about his cheating? Has he examined what made him cheat? Do you trust that he won't do it again?