wish I didn't like him so much

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Registered: 10-22-2005
wish I didn't like him so much
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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 4:04pm
I wish I didn't like this guy so much. Staying over at his place really did it for me. We didn't have sex but we were intimate in other ways and I know he doesn't have feelings for me the way I have for him. I haven't chatted with him in two days and it bothers me that I'm here thinking about him constantly and I doubt he thinks about me much, if at all. He said he wants to get together again, for sex of course, and I want to but he doesn't give me a time though, just says sometime. I know I should stop talking to him and forget about him but it's easier said than done. I hate not being able to chat with him, waiting and waiting for him to come online. I know it's pathetic on my part but it's how I feel.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 10-23-2005 - 4:20pm

Just because it's how you feel doesn't mean you should act on it. This guy isn't gonna give you satisfaction. If you wind up being intimate again and he pulls back (which is probable given what you write) then you'll just be worse off.


You need to do all you can to get your mind off it- maybe be on the computer less even. Get out in the world - meet people, do interesting activities.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 10:03am

frustrated 12...

Pianoguy has one quick question for you:

If you made the choice to HAVE SEX WITH THIS MAN (during a future date), could you just 'walk away after the deed was done' and feel nothing?

Depending upon your response to my question....a smart lady like yourself should have no difficulty trying to decide whether to continue this relationship...or drop it!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 11-24-2004
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 2:10pm
It's not good for you to get together with him again. Your feelings will get stronger and it will be even tougher to let go when he wants to end things. Since he doesn't feel the same way, eventually, he will break things off.

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:55am

Take his screen name OFF your buddy list, so you won't have any idea when he's online.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 1:53pm
I agree,
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