Women are so "Territorial"

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Women are so "Territorial"
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Tue, 08-10-2004 - 3:26am
None of my female friends will introduce me to they're female friends. They'll show me pictures of them hanging out or something, and im like "hey, what's her name, lets hang out". When i do that, they blow me off and wont introduce me to them. Why?

It's like that saying "if i cant have you, nobody will"...and they use that against me. Most of my female friends want a relationship with me, and i dont, because they are my friends. I wont cross that line and probably burn some bridges. But i do want to meet some of there friends so we can be friends too.

Why is this so difficult?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 10:52am
I have men friends that I don't hook up and it's because I would be embarrassed. They would be themselves and then I would (feel) that I would have to answer to the girl...why did I hook her up with this guy?

Maybe your friends feel the same way about you, they know too much about you and how you are with women and don't want to be responsible for introducing you to a friend of theirs. OR they know the girl and her taste and you're not it.

I think you're better off just meeting women on your own and not relying on these girls to hook you up.
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 08-11-2004 - 5:36pm
Another reason that they might not hook you up with their friends is if something should happen between you and one of her friends and end badly, she might have to wind up making that tough decision of who to stay friends with because the 2 of you can't be in the same room together or something. Or maybe you are not making it clear enough that all you want to be is friends with these other women and so they are drawing the conclusion that you want to hook up with them and they don't want to see that b/c "they all want a relationship with you". But that is another topic - why they heck to guys think that all their friends who are girls want to be with them. It's not always true - ya know!

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