women "born to serve men"????
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| Fri, 11-05-2004 - 9:55am |
I have posted here before about being in a relationship that did not make sense. Actions and words did not match, a lot of things were just "wrong". Anyway, I finally after 10 months of putting enormous effort and giving patience into the relationship, broke it off. The reason was that I thought he was completely selfish in bed. His response was "Women are born to serve men, and please them whenever men want to be pleased. Sexually, women don't need pleasure, men do. They are also suppposed to cook and be happy and honored to be with their man." Shall i mentioned he told me he lvoed me every day and i never really "felt" it, the loving feeling, you know the feeling you get when you know someone is into you..
I know I made the right choice, but I am also a bit sad, and disappointed that I spent so much time with him, when I had the feeling this was wrong from the beginning. I haven't been single for a while (7 years) and i don't know where to start from.
Please give me any advice you have. Thank you!
d_willis

Much luck to you.
Maria
I feel extremely relieved now that I made that decision! I agree I need to do some thinking as to why I stayed for so long and I am looking forward to that and to enjoying being single for a while. The funny thing is that I was never happy in the relationship, I am the kind of person who knows what I want and have solid criteria, but I never managed to get out of the sticky situation with my ex, until now.
Actually, I am still shocked by the statements he made. I have heard before of men like that, read about them, but never thought I would ever hear something like that, or that people who seriously think that way exist. Maybe some of you have met jerks like this, it's a first for me, at least to such an extreme.
d_willis