Would this be a dealbreaker?

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Would this be a dealbreaker?
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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 9:24am

Well, on my fifth date with M, we got a little hot and heavy, but not intercourse. During the course of our date I was sort of feeling on 'the fence' about him and then later when we got a little intimate I found out that he has a VERY VERY VERY small penis. The smallest one that I have ever encountered and he is such a big guy...why would God create such a small penis on a man that tall and broad?!?!?! Anywho, I felt very strange because it was so small I felt like it was a child's penis. So, now what do I do?

I had made a promise to myself that I wouldn't have sex with a guy until we had a committment. But now, I don't know if I want to commit to this guy unless I know I could enjoy sex with him. I just don't know how possibly I could feel it, it's not much bigger than a super size tampon.

I've heard that size doesn't matter, but I think to me it does. This might just be a dealbreaker for me. Sorry, I know that sounds shallow, but it's how I feel. I also must say, that I am almost positive that he was fully erect because my friends have suggested that he may not have been. But, I am pretty sure he was.

Help!!!

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 11-26-2005 - 10:36pm

You're not the only one who would feel this is a dealbreaker. So don't feel guilty. But certainly be tactful.

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Mon, 11-28-2005 - 9:46pm
Well, I almost stopped seeing a guy for the same reason (thought his penis was too small), but, like you might end up doing, I made the decision before I had test-driven the guy in the sack (penetration wise I mean). Boy, would have I been wrong to have dumped him for this!!! The sex, to this day in fact, was and is, by far the best I have had. And I am not talking simply "alternatives" to penetration. Just the opposite. This man knew what to do with his equipment: if you gals believe in the G-spot: he knew what to do with his penis to stimulate it. Plus, honestly, a vagina is only snesitive in the first third of its lenght, so there is really nopoint in wanting your guys big... IMO...
Good luck!

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