would this be to weird
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would this be to weird
| Thu, 08-10-2006 - 7:18pm |
sorry this is so long but i am really needing some advice right naow and i don't know who to turn to. I have only recently decided to give the whole dating thing a shot again after being so hurt in my first relationship. i was with my ex for about five years from the time i was 13 to 18. we have one child together. when we were together he was controlling and emotionally abusive and i finally decided to leave him after our baby was born. that was 4 years ago and since then it seems like every relationship i have been in i have known from the very beginning it would not work out. now i have decided i want to be with someone and i am ready. so my best friend and her boyfriend decided they want to set me up with someone great. turns out i already know who he is and i have had a bit of a crush on him for a long time. It's my exes cousin. i already know he is a great guy he's not at all like my ex and i guess he wants to go out with me to. at first he was a little weirded out also but he wants to give it a shot. my ex and i don't talk anymore unless it's something about our daughter who he only even sees once or twice a month. and it's 100% over with him and has been for years.also him and his cousin aren't very close at all.i have talked about it with my parents and they say go for it it's not like were related or anything but i know his parents have a bit of an issue with it. they already said i'm like family. he also has a child the same age as mine and although our kids don't really know one another. i'm worried that would be strange to them also. i guess the biggest thing i'm worried about though is my ex i know he would be pretty PO'd about the whole situation but he'd be PO'd to hear if i was going out with anyone.
anyway is it wrong to date an exes family member? and if not how do i make it less akward in the beginning?
anyway is it wrong to date an exes family member? and if not how do i make it less akward in the beginning?

"anyway is it wrong to date an exes family member?"
I don't really have the right to tell you what's right and what's wrong, but I personally don't think it's a good idea.