Wrong Man Again?
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Wrong Man Again?
| Mon, 11-12-2007 - 1:22pm |
I have been dating this guy for a little over a year. He moved in with me right away, long story short.. we had an agreement that we would split the bills. Now, I pay the bills before the first of the month, and sometime around the middle of the month he gives me a check. He usually "lets" me pay for groceries. Lately, he has let his out of work 28 yr old son stay with us in MY small condo. I've had enough, but I wonder if I'm being selfish. He is 57 and I am 47. We both work...why are men so willing to let a woman take care of them? What should I do?
Here we go again!

Ok if wanting respect and courtesy from others is selfish - then yes, I am selfish. What does selfish mean to you? You are confusing selfish - which for me is taking care of my 'self' -
Toni
Toni and Snafu gave you some great advice.
YG
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