X boyfriend has feelings and other x

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Registered: 08-23-2004
X boyfriend has feelings and other x
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Mon, 08-22-2005 - 9:56am
ok this sounds really complicated which it is. My X-Boyfriend that I dated for 8 months we broke up last year he had to much going on in his life and I wasn't happy with our situation. so we broke up we recently in the past two months have started talking again as friends - everyone keep telling me he was intrested in me and I didn't really think so, well we had party we went to this weekend and he was there and sat with us. Well to make it more confusing the x that I dated for 3 months when we were broken up was there also and we haven't talked since feb. when I broke up with him because, I figured he was still in love with his x girlfriend that cheated on him and married another guy only to get a divorce!!! He saw me siting by my x and didn't talk to me - I talked to his friend that were sititng right by him and he still avoid me - I was going to be a big person and say hi... the end of the night came and I was a little annoyed at the fact he was being so stubborn - anyway I ran into him outside and standing right next to him he still didn't say hi... finally i said hi how are you - then he was like my best friend.... he was talking to me being nice to me joking around with me and even got me a drink - I gave him a hug at the end of the night and told him we should go golfing or hang out as friends or something.... I really like him but, I went to lunch with my x of 8 months yesterday and it went really good and we got the chance to talk about things...
I just don't know what to do because, i still have feeling for my x of 8 months but, i don't trust how things ended but, I also have feeling for the 3 month guy - I just feel we didn't have a fare chance we got along great and we never fought or anythng we were alot more alike... I AM SO CONFUSED I DON"T KNOW?????
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Registered: 10-16-2003
Mon, 08-22-2005 - 6:48pm

Well I'd say be very careful about what you decide to step into. You broke up with your ex's for a reason. Think about it. I would go with the flow for a while, and let things take their course.