YIKES! boyfriend is married...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2006
YIKES! boyfriend is married...
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Sat, 12-09-2006 - 6:33pm
I just found out that a man I was in a relationship with and cared for dearly is married...sure the signs were there since hindsight is 20/20 and now I feel so stupid, used, and hurt. I emailed him a copy of his marriage announcement from his local newspaper with nothing else to say. And I guess I am writing this only because I need an outlet to vent without anyone knowing who I am because I feel so stupid...a few words of wisdom on how to get over this hurt would be nice.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Sat, 12-09-2006 - 9:13pm

Don't be so hard on yourself. The good news is that you eventually did your homework and you know the truth now.

We all aren't walking polygraphs. Time to move on in a positive light.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Sat, 12-09-2006 - 11:52pm
He lied to you. You fell in love. What kind of signs were there?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 12-10-2006 - 10:09pm
You're not the only one to be caught in this type of situation and take comfort at least that you're not at all tempted to continue to see him!
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