you aint met a problem like this b4...

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Registered: 05-13-2004
you aint met a problem like this b4...
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Mon, 12-06-2004 - 5:26am
Honestly this is a mess. first up im seeing two guys. one is 23, the other 33. the 23 is nice, buys me stuff, and everyone thinks its lovely and i should go with him.
the 33 is married with 3 kids, i knowthe wife, but over the last couple of months weve seen quite a lot of each other and have fallen in love.
first- which man.
the nice young one who is more the same as me and we do have things in common,
or the older one whom other people have poited out they can see our connection we have, theres no reason 'we' couldnt 'be' is because of the wife, the 3 kids, and the age gap.
what you think?
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Registered: 12-06-2004
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 8:28am
Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I've been in the same situation as you have. If I were you I would stick with the 23 year old. This other guy sounds like he has his life laid out for him, wife kids house, and trust me, that isn't something you should mess with. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he is almost twice my age and the big age difference between us causes lots of problems. Older guys have a different train of thought and I've come to realize this.