You see, I like this guy at work.....
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| Sat, 08-19-2006 - 9:37am |
But...Im not sure what hes feeling...Im relatively new/young to this dating stuff..
When i first joined, he was always staring at me, watching me, helping me out, trying to talk to me...I guess he had a crush on me. I didnt respond too much, coz i was new and scared.
I ignored him quite a bit in an obvious awkward way (coz his staring creeped me out, He wudnt even smile back at me most of the time!)
Its been a year, and now he wont look at me... We talk abt work stuff, but yeah othewise, its weird. We say hi sometimes, other times not...really awkward.
If i ever look at him, he wont look back at me, but grins to himself.
If i talk to him or mildly flirt, he smiles widely like he wants to laugh, and many times blushes, and walks off.
Now id think hes a shy guy, right? But hes not shy in general at all. He loves talking to everybody, really social guy. The others cant believe it when i tell them hes shy!
I dunno what to make of it...can i assume he likes me? or is he not interested?
Or does he know that i like him? Any help or opinion is welcome!

Given how Sexual Harassment cases work, men have to be very careful of our attitudes and behaviors around women in the workplace. Your attitude towards him has changed, but he also knows that he likely crossed your line of respect early on. His job and income are far more important than taking the risk with you since he doesn't know if you will revert back to your previous ways.
If you have an interest in him, then you will likely need to move it away from the office for any chance of a positive response from him.