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young and in love
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 11:21am |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months. I really love him and he loves me. We often talk about our future and he has mentioned that he is saving for my ring. We are both 21 and i was wondering if it is too early or we are too young to be considering marriage. I just dont want to be one of those couples who get married too young and regret it in the long run. Any advice?

Pianoguy thinks YOU should realize your personal dreams, ambitions, and the issues that mean the most to YOU....BEFORE you settle down.
Taking on a partner means relinquishing a portion of yourself...and while the romance between you is pretty "hot" right now....a lot can change within 3-5 years...especially if you 'relinquished a personal desire' in favor of becoming a couple.
Let the man save his money for you....because if a wedding IS in your future, you might want a house, a car or....err...a baby stroller! But rather than get the wedding invitations engraved...enjoy each other's company as SINGLES a little longer, okay?
Warm thoughts and hugs from...
Pianoguy
From all the weddings I have been to, I see that they take a lot of money, time and planning. Not to mention the honeymoon. A lot of couples today are taking on more of the wedding/ reception costs themselves, rather than the bride's parents paying for it all. So the two of you can start saving money for the event and in 2 years time should have enough to have a beautiful wedding.
Also, if you feel that you are too young, you can wait. There's no pressure. There's nothing wrong with either just being together for a few years, or being engaged for a few years. You will know when the time is right, so no rush.