You've had HOW MANY girlfriends???

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
You've had HOW MANY girlfriends???
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 1:04am

background: I was married many years so I've been out of the game as it were. My boyfriend of over one year is younger and unbelievably adorable (but I'm no slouch either)..SSo this is what I just still can't get over. I knew he was a playboy and that women swarm around him like bees, so I knew he'd been around, but a few months back I asked him the number..he said very casually, "oh, about 50". That's not counting his one nite stands! And no, he's not a jerk, these exe's love

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 7:08pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2004
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 11:44pm

I have had a situation very much like yours.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
Fri, 11-09-2007 - 12:11am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 5:21pm

What you might want to do is to not discuss his encounters or get into specifics about the women he had those encounters with.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 10:22am
Hmmmm.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 11:05am

If you knew for a fact that there is a Mine Field directly in front of you and that you are at significant risk to be blown up - would you walk through the Mine Field or choose avoid it and walk around it?


Very few men will take the risk of being judged and blown up by sharing details on things that are in the past and have nothing to do with you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 3:58pm

You are welcome =).

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