2 dates who asked me ZERO QUESTIONS!

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Registered: 08-20-2008
2 dates who asked me ZERO QUESTIONS!
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 3:17pm

A DATE WHO NEVER ASKS A SINGLE QUESTION ABOUT YOU???


Okay, has anyone else encountered this?

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 3:57pm

Not recently and not 2 in a row.


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Registered: 09-09-2004
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 7:24pm

Not necessarily self-centered- INEXPERIENCED or Nervous may be the answer. When I meet new people sometimes it's just easiest to talk about myself because I can't think of what I should be asking or how to start a conversation- or I just forget. And then I realize I should be asking them questions and am so embarrassed I can't think of what to say.


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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 4:02pm

Maybe that's why they want to go out w/ you again cause you seemed so interested in them.

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 5:40pm
Well, I was raised to believe that it is RUDE to ask questions. If someone wants you to know something they will tell you. Any question that require a personal answer was just RUDE. Questions about what movie you would like to see or which restaurant are we going to is a little different. But to ask someone a personal question on the first few dates was a huge NO/NO. Maybe your dates were raised that way also.