Always over thinking
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Always over thinking
| Tue, 02-03-2009 - 12:14pm |
Ok- So I met this guy a few weeks ago on match.com. We hit it off, he lives in the city I live in the suburbs. Last weekend I went down to the city and ended up staying at his condo and slept with him. We had fun, went to dinner, out for drinks, etc... he made me breakfast, even bought me this green tea that I love. He's a nice guy. Anyway- I have never slept with someone that quickly before. Ever. Now I know why... I assume this means something- but I'm not sure if it does on his end. Since then he has contacted me every day. Calls, texts, emails..etc... after I left his house on Saturday I went home and saw he signed on to match.com again. I have now become obsessed with checking to see how often he signs on there- thinking, if you are sleeping with/seeing me why are you still on there? That is totally insane I know- but I'm a woman- so that is my excuse. I am 29, he is 34. He has a son who lives far away, he seems really responsible, flies to see him every 5 or 6 weeks. I just have it in my head that now that I've slept with him, he got what he wanted. I've read so many things about waiting to sleep with someone and how its never a good idea to do that too soon- and I do agree because now I'm feeling terrible. I did sorta bring it up and said that I was feeling bad and I didn't want him to think less of me for doing that. He said not to worry and that it takes two people, and he doesn't think any differently of me. But I can't help it. Anyone else ever been in a situation like this? Did I totally ruin it by doing this?

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You're right!
Raeslp,
I've been
Raeslp,
I was just over on the OLD message board and came across a really good discussion that I wish I came across a week ago before all of MY drama started.
Hi again- Well, I'm sorry to hear that- were you referencing the new guy/relationship with that last post? Or maybe you were talking about an old one? Either way it's tough.. I do the same thing as you-I just like to know what is going on.. but I think the bottom line is that over-reacting and thinking/imagining something is silly, especially when
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