Asking a guy out???

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Registered: 10-04-2013
Asking a guy out???
Mon, 10-07-2013 - 8:58am

I recently posted a situation I was in on another board and I mentioned that I had asked the guy out and I got varied responses from people who said women should NEVER ask a guy out.  What is your view on this.  I don't see an issue with it.  I don't believe in all the work having to be up to the guys.  We are all people with our own various insecurities and I think we should really just be upfront with each other.  If I am interested in a guy I don't think I should sit around looking for clues and signs and play hard to get to pique his interest.  What are your opinions?