BF dated 5 years Nothing Serious.....
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| Tue, 09-02-2008 - 11:15pm |
My bf hasn't dated anyone serious in 5 years, as a matter of fact I dated him shortly approx 5 years ago, but he was not ready for a serious relationship, he was still getting over his divorce. I read th e-mail the sent me in 2004 it said, "sorry I cannot give you the relationship you need right now, you are definitely the right person just at the wrong time. Hopefully, we could get together sometime in the future."Well anyway, ran into him and now where here again 2008....Does My bf does not know how to be a bf or is he just lazy and selfish? He told me over the past 5 years he has spent most of his free time with his daughter now 11. They are very close, to the point where I wonder if he has been using his daughter as a shield instead of having his own life. He is 41 I am 31. He does everything with his daughter, this past weekend really frustrated me, because everyone were making plans with their significant other, while my bf was running down a list of all the things he wanted to do with his daughter. I have a daughter too age 13, and when I don't have a bf I use to spend too much time crowding her space, now she actually tells me to go away.
We have been dating 2 months now, and we se each other 1 day a week on a week day about 3 hours including sex

You are playing second fiddle to his daughter and probably always will.
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Does he have full custody of his DD?
I don't know if there's any magic time line--I think it's good not to introduce the kids until you are more serious.