Broke up with him because I missed him
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| Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:23am |
I broke up with my ex-bf because he was an extreme case of commitment phobia. When we experienced intimate moments not only sex, he would pull away and I would not see him for over a week or talk to him in days. This most recent time, he went out of town for work and I did not hear from him the entire weekend. I expected for him to at least call me at night or when he arrived. Maybe even a text message. When I comfronted him about it via text, he said I was being a drama queen. In fact, I knew his was his way of avoiding the truth. Finally, he text messages me on Wednesday morning and states I am sorry for my ways, and any hurt I may cause...(whatever that's suppose to mean, no promises for real change, no clear communications), I said "thank you for the apology, this will help in our healing when we go our separate ways." he then said I wish you all the best "I wanted to say bulls**t, but instead I said I think its best if we not maintain contact, this will allow us to move on and allow healing to take place. He said o.k. I really don't believe in it, but if this is what you want I will respect your wishes.
What else was I suppose to do? I like him and when we actually spend time together we get a long fine. I just get tired of his push and pull messages. Sometimes I realy want to spend time with him, but he is not available. I don't believe he is cheating. He has intimacy issues, and I get lonely and miss him very often. I want to call him back, but I am confused about it.

Hi Kaye, Im sorry to say he was not all that into the relationship or in love with you or he would not have let you break it off that easy.
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