bummed out

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Registered: 01-24-2011
bummed out
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Mon, 05-16-2011 - 7:04pm

I have been emailing a guy back and forth for a week. We plan to meet in June when he moves to my city.

We emailed until 8.30 last then nothing. not even one single email today.

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Registered: 05-16-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Mon, 05-16-2011 - 7:35pm

I think he's playing hard to get. You know the best way to deal with that? Give it right back to him. When he does email you again, make him wait just as long as he takes to email you back. Seriously...they are children. Don't let it get to you.

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Registered: 12-05-2010
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 3:08am

Regrettably, this is par for the course with internet dating. You may likely never know what is

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Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 8:55am

Trenner,

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Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: misslynn76
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 7:51pm

Hi Misslyne, I totally understand how you feel by getting interested in one guy, but do your best to avoid it. You haven't even met and most probably you're just imagining things about him that don't exist. And try to avoid checking on him, it will only drive you crazy. Ok, I already did that myself, but I know that there's no way that the guy will be interested in me before even meeting and that it's normal that he logs in. If you want, just propose to meet, so you can at least know whether you're attracted to him in real life or not, instead of wondering why he didn't write.

There's one guy I've been dying to meet for a while. I had to cancel one date because my son was sick and then he canceled (a day before his vacation) because he had a soccer injury. Well, I don't know when he comes back from vacations, but I saw him connected. Maybe he's back. He called me a few times before he left and seemed curious to meet, I thought that it was in the bag, but maybe things changed. In the meantime, I'm meeting other people and one of them seems very interested. And I'm thinking less and less about this one. Have fun and don't take any of them too seriously.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 12:32am

He is playing video games!

chaika

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Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 12:59pm

Hey Sireanita,

Thanks for your good advice. I will try to meet to talk to as many guys as possible.

I hope you find the one soon.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: misslynn76
Wed, 05-18-2011 - 1:01pm

haha, possible.