confused

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Registered: 08-28-2007
confused
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Sun, 10-17-2010 - 9:33am

Hello. This is my first time posting on this board. I separated from my husband about a year ago, and the divorce was finalized in June this year. We were unhappy for abot 2 years proir, so i feel as if i have been single longer.

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Registered: 09-23-2009
In reply to: emila712
Mon, 10-18-2010 - 9:49am

Hello,

I'm sorry that this happened to you. His behavior is rude and cowardly. I would assume that he no longer wants to be with you for whatever reason. Why do you still want to be with him when he has treated you like this? You would continue a relationship with him if he all of a sudden he contacted you again? You need to be your own best friend and don't settle for someone who would treat you like this. If it were me, I would say it's a good thing I found out what a jerk he is so early on so I didn't waste anymore time on him.

It's tough finding a decent man. I went through 2 and

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Registered: 06-08-2008
In reply to: emila712
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 8:05pm

hi, sorry to hear you are going through this... it was pretty rude of him to just bail on you no phone call and just a text response. That shows a real lack of respect on his part.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2007
In reply to: emila712
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 10:16am

Thanks for the response. I do usually listen to my gut, and this time it says maybe he really was sick. lol. See, with my ex H i spent the last 3 full years of constant disappointment. He became an alcoholic, and always cancelled plans with the family, and just me and him. Always too "sick, hungover" to do anything.

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Registered: 12-01-2010
In reply to: emila712
Wed, 12-01-2010 - 11:30am
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