confused by mixed signals

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Registered: 05-28-2008
confused by mixed signals
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Wed, 05-28-2008 - 11:40am

I am a 38 y.o. almost divorced woman(from a scary ,jealous,possesive man who I began dating at 17).

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:32pm

On one hand, to me, he does sound interested but on the other hand, he might just be making casual conversation with a parent / friend. I would look more to what his body language says that this point than I would the words said or the emails exchanged.


How does he act when he is around you?

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Registered: 05-28-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:45pm
He definately acts interested...he makes long eye contact, smiles alot,teases me whenever possible and even fidgets a little.
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Registered: 12-19-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:55pm

 Z

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Registered: 05-28-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 3:08pm
Absolutely because red flags are only a warning
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 8:10pm
I understand your need to find someone. However, you are not even divorced yet! I think it is a gift to yourself to take the time to heal from your marriage and to get back in touch with who you are. The romance can come later...it certainly makes life less dramatic.
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Registered: 05-28-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 8:46pm
I understand why you would say that and it is true ...to an extent.
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 9:53pm
I too want to get back out into the dating world...have been divorced for 6 years. You are right, it takes confidence and I battle to keep mine every day. All I can say is take it slowly and listen to your gut. Sometimes when we have not dated in a long time it is hard to figure out if a guy is into you. So, good luck and be strong.
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Registered: 05-28-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 10:44pm
Thank you I appreciate your comment.
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Registered: 12-19-2007
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 2:20pm

 Z

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Registered: 05-28-2008
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 3:35pm

Hey Z -I am confused by what the serious issues are...the obvious one being my ex's behaviors is going to occur whenever I begin dating again.

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