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| Sun, 09-27-2009 - 11:36pm |
Date number four last night with Single Dad went beautifully. I went a little further than I had originally planned...but he texted twice and called once today, so it must have been OK!
I am trying really hard to stay focused and sort of detached for a while so I don't fall into this emotionally at this point. He's already off the site, I had hidden my profile because I don't have any time to really see anyone else, but we hadn't discussed it at all.
But, gee, for a guy I really wasn't sure I even wanted to reply to (he emailed me first on OLD, he's 10 years older, his profile was kind of bland, even the first phone call was kind of bland...), he is knocking my socks off with his kindness and sense of humor. His child rearing philosophy is almost exactly like mine, same music taste, same book tastes, both trying to raise kids alone, he respects my time with my kids and the fact that the kids have to come first. So easy to talk to.
After all the drama with Toxic Man, and the millions of first meets that went no where, this is really, really nice.

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My last go-around with match was dreary as well which is why I'm hesitant to shell out more money for OLD. In three months, I ended up with not a single in-person meet but added to my collection of ghosts, which wasn't my intention :)
(Sorry for the thread hijack. Bad habit of mine.)
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