dating again
Find a Conversation
| Fri, 04-10-2009 - 12:03am |
~Apologies for cross posting...trying to find the right place~
I have been been working on myself for the last few years and have learned a lot and feel so much more secure in myself.
I have decided I'm ready to date and have my first one lined up this coming Monday. I met him online and we exchanged emails and chatted and now will meet. I have done this a few times before and will be completely safe (as in the whole meeting people online stuff) but am worried how I will fair emotionally.
I'm trying to remember that I should not rely on him to supply the boundaries and that mine must come from me.
We have so many things in common and I want to remain balanced this time.
I also want to have a few dates with more then one person before i jump into a relationship full on which has been my regular style.
A fast recap of me dating in the past:
We meet
Healthy for about a month
obsession starts
I change to make them like me
everything goes to hell
breakup..usually messy
I then spend years trying to figure it all out and love myself again
Any ideas or experiences people have with this would be very helpful...thank you:)

One I can think of is dont have sex to early on in a possible relationship.
Powered by CGISpy.com