dating doosy

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Registered: 01-26-2009
dating doosy
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Mon, 01-26-2009 - 5:30pm
ok so if anyone has some advice for me that'd be great. :) okay so I have this date tonight, it's going to be our second date. I asked him out the first time but he asked me out the second time. But theres a problem I cant read him what so ever! it didn't even seem like he was into me after our first date but then he asked me out again. Theres another problem he works with my mother and he always seems distant.. I'm confused on whether he asked me out because of me or because him and my mother are friends and he didn't want to make i6t akward between them...? If anyone has any idea what i should do please help!!
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Registered: 06-05-2008
In reply to: harley10111
Mon, 01-26-2009 - 7:08pm
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Registered: 01-27-2009
In reply to: harley10111
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 7:42pm
This is the inherent problem with asking guys out--you never know if they are being polite or going out with you out of convenience. Whatever you do, make sure you instruct your mother not to mention anything about you or the two of you to him. She should act professional and friendly, and act as if you never went out. Also, you shouldn't talk to him about your mother or his connection to her. The less pressure he feels, the better. If you were getting the vibe that he's not that into you, you're probably right. However, the only way to find out is to let him carry the relationship 100% from now on. Don't call him, ask him out, or pursue him in any way. Good luck!