Dating for ltr vs getting laid

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Registered: 06-06-2008
Dating for ltr vs getting laid
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Fri, 06-06-2008 - 11:37am

I don't understand dating. It seems as though romance is not desired by men or women these days. I am on an internet dating site and men do not email me any more since I wrote at the end of my profile that I did not want a fling. I wrote that because I am tired of going out for 2 or 3 dates and because I do not have sex, the guy never calls me again.


One man said that I have to have casual sex for a while and then it

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 10:07pm
I don't think that exists today.

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.

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Registered: 04-15-2008
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 8:51am

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 06-08-2008 - 5:38pm

While it's definitely true that many people online are looking to have sex right away and follow the philosophy that was suggested to you, it's not true of every man online.

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Registered: 04-15-2008
Mon, 06-09-2008 - 8:15am

yea and i am one of those...


i was about to hang up the internet dating belt.. when mine walked in my door... and he was/is nothing like some of the others... and we got married... so your right... try a different site... and yes it brings the pool a little smaller... but maybe i thought i was supposed to start in a olympic sized pool... to discover i needed the wading pool!!!!!!!!!!