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Dating More Than One Person
| Fri, 03-21-2008 - 10:17am |
What are your thoughts on this? I started dating again recently after a break-up. I don't want another relatiosnship right away. Now I am not talking about sex with anyone just dating more than one person. What are your thoughts and what is the etiquette?

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Hey bosox lady,
Sox fan here too!
I got out of a relationship 6 weeks ago and dont want another one for a long time. I like dating a few different guys. I see one regularly and 2 others rarely. I like it that way. But I think that once one of them becomes physical then I will try to make it exclusive.
Is there an etiquette? I dont know.
The guy I just stopped seeing wanted exclusivity from day one on. But he was possessive. I should have seen the warnings.
Laurie
This is a fun thread. But I should have read all the posts before I posted.
Maybe they are brooding Rockies fans.
By the sound of your descriptions of guys you sound very excited about number 2. Oh and do they know you see other guys? I am in a quandary about this. None of mine have discussed exclusivity with me, well one did but thats a long story, but I havent told any of them about the others or even mentioned that I see others. But then again I dont want an exclusive relationship anytime soon.
Laurie
Casual dating guy is gone.
Jamacian guy knows I an back with my EX, but still wants to visit. He feels that there is still a chance that we can bridge the fact we live in 2 different countries with visits and fall in love.
Ex knows that I was with a guy in Jamaica and he is planning to visit me. While he is not thrilled with it, he relaized this occurred BEFORE he reentered my life, and that it is up to him to rebuild with me if he wants exclusivity. On my part, I have agreed to put 100% , as has he into in and we have agreed NOT to date others locally.
So is guy number 3 out of the picture?
Laurie
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