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|Tue, 12-29-2009 - 1:46pm|
I was just wondering what are some dealbreakers for you to NOT see a guy again or to end a relationship even though he may have more good qualities than bad.
I have trouble figuring out mine...but I do know a couple for sure...like...
I would not, under any circumstances, date a guy who has kids. Maybe, just MAYBE...if I was a lot older (I'm only 22), and his kids were grown...and of course we would have to get along (if the kids and I didn't get along, I wouldn't bother) :)
I couldn't date a smoker. I was never attracted to a smoker before, but if I was...I think I would find his smoking habits so unappealing that it would make me unattracted to him.
I also would refuse to date a guy who had a habit of getting drunk.
I had dated a guy for a few years who had yellow teeth, believe it or not. It grossed me out beyond belief, but I thought if I stopped seeing him b/c of that one factor, then I would be shallow...and I thought he had more good qualities than bad so I continued seeing him, but that was one thing that bothered me and disgusted me way too often throughout our relationship, and I don't see myself ever going through that again.
My current boyfriend is overweight and has the most annoying habits like "adjusting himself" in the crotch area way too often, and he puts his fingers in his mouth a lot (to either bite his nails or clean them with his teeth...which I know sounds so disgusting). However, I don't contemplate breaking up with him over this, but it got me thinking as to what "quirks" or habits I could deal with, and what I would not put up with.
How about you guys?