Dilemma on Early Dating Stage

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Registered: 07-31-2007
Dilemma on Early Dating Stage
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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 4:08am

Hi,

I met this guy accidentally in January with his brother, whom was my college friend. He was on a visit in my city and upon knowing hearing me saying that my sister lives in the same city as him, he told me to give him a call when i visit his city. A few days later, he added me in facebook.

Time passed. I broke up with my LD bf recently. Last Monday, I came over to his city because of work. My sis asked me if I would let him know that I'm in town. I didn't think of it in the first place, but I thought it was a good idea to get more connection. So I decided to tell him that I'll be there for a few days. He ended up giving me his bb pin to add. We had dinner with my sister, bro-in-law and one friend of mine that also knows him the next day. For the next few days, we ended up going out 3 more times in a group with his friends and my sister and bro-in-law. He always initiated it. Things were really wonderful, he showed a lot of attention and seemed like he had been talking about me to his friends. One of his friend teased him about me.

I went back to my city yesterday. He said that this wk he might come over to my city for work. So I bb him before leaving, "so i'll c ya in my city?". He replied "hehe ok2. have a safe flight :)"
Do I read too much but I feel that his reply didn't give me a solid confirmation that he would see me if he's in town. Should I bb him something to show him more of my interest? He knows that I am coming back to his city in 1 or 2 weeks. It's funny that he doesn't ask for my number til now too.

I'm confused. Could someone give me more input??

Thank you

Moonglow 05


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Moonglow 05
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 1:45pm
Is BB Blackberry? You'd think w/ all the ways there are of getting in touch w/ people nowadays, it would be easier, but it seems to just cause more confusion. Since he said he "might" be in your city, maybe he was waiting for confirmation from work before he made definite plans. Anyway, he knows your number & how to contact you, so he'll call if he's interested. If you don't hear from him, you can still give him a call to tell him when you are going to be back in his city and see if he wants to make plans.
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Registered: 07-31-2007
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 11:53pm

Hi MusicLover12,

Ya BB is a short form for blackberry. Sorry for not making it clear in the beginning.

Thank you for the reply. I think it's a great idea from you :)

Moonglow 05
Moonglow 05