Do nice guys really finish last?

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Do nice guys really finish last?
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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 6:30pm

Was previously seeing two guys.

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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 6:55pm

For me, it's related to my issues with being attracted to emotionally unavailable men.

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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 7:04pm

I agree that sex def bonds you with another person.

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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 7:12pm

Yep, agree with all of the stuff you're saying about having sex early on.

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Registered: 09-02-2006
Sun, 12-20-2009 - 8:10pm

That's a good question, glad you asked.

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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 8:12pm

This discussion made me realize that maybe the "challenging guy" is actually a "nice guy too" and he just got scared off by the paty-girl persona he first met.