Does this make sense to anyone?
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Does this make sense to anyone?
| Tue, 04-21-2009 - 11:55pm |
I am not sure how to explain this that it will make sense but I will try. I met a guy about a year ago through some friends. He seems like a great guy. He is really sweet and caring. The first time we met in person was at our friends wedding ( we were paired up in the bridal party). Since we had never met in person,
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| Wed, 04-22-2009 - 8:20am |
Being nervous is a natural feeling when getting close with someone you're strongly attracted with. And being comfortable at same time means, yes, there's a connection. It happens when you have good chemistry with the opposite sex and it will last until the first few months of dating. In medical point of view: during these times, feel good hormones and neurotransmitters like dopamine and norepinephrine are released and also stimulates the oxytocin level (that triggers the "feeling of connection or bonding").. It's amazing how science explains all these but just enjoy the feeling and figure if it lasts longer than what science could figure.. I suggest you keep your cool, go with the flow, but always keep your emotions in check. Why is that? because when we're starting to feel vulnerable, our emotions are at highest state that we're too foolish to figure how to do the right thing. Keeping it in check allows you to think objectively and does not rely on emotions alone. Meaning, these are the times when you have to figure the character of the new guy whether he meets your preferences or you're just simply overly attracted to him that you may overlook his negative side which may backfire during the last phase of the relationship.. So the smartest way to know if he's the right one is to think objectively.. your emotions and your mind should always go together.. =)
