first date blooper

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2005
first date blooper
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 11:29am

Hello everyone.


I need some advice. i met this guy at a recent get together and decided to go to a movie with him after the afternoon festivities. I had seen him around and knew a little about him; thought he was interesting. I went to the movie and found out a lot about him I didn't know. I not only let the date go further than I meant too. We did not go "sailing", but still a little more physical. He is WAY more into me after one date than I am. It is only 6hrs until our 2nd date and it has only been 2 days since our first. He has probably already called/text me more times than I get on a regular basis, complimented me more than in my entire lifetime. He is one of those very open and honest people who seem to jump in head first without testing the waters. I want to slow way down because after learning some of his background I am not sure if this will go anywhere or if he is the right guy for me. I am learning to give guys at least a 2nd date, maybe third but he has come on way strong right out of the box.


What do I do?


Thanks in advance guys!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Mon, 07-07-2008 - 7:41pm
I feel your pain! I replied to your other post. I cannot wait to hear how your date goes tonight and if you can get him to slow down....way down.
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