Before the first date concern

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Registered: 03-23-2012
Before the first date concern
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 11:24am
Hi everyone. I am new and have a question on what you would do/think.

I met a guy online on Tuesady. We chatted for 5 hours that night and then pretty much all the next day. On Wed morning, he asked me out for Friday for drinks after he gets out of work. I accepted and was excited. Come Thu, we chatted briefly in the morn and then I heard nothing from him until that night when I initiated a chat. I had even given him my number and told him he could call or text and he never did It's now Fri morn and not a peep out of him.

At what point do I contact him, if at all??
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 2:47pm

Well it's already Friday so I don't know if it's too late--did you make a plan to meet at a specific time & place or was it just left kind of vague?

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Registered: 09-12-2010
Sat, 03-24-2012 - 12:29pm
I would do the same thing as musiclover. Just a text saying, "Hey would you still like to go out tonight?"